If you’re like the rest of us, heartbreak isn’t the first place where you’d look for the spark to ignite the transformation, to lead you towards a purpose driven life. We don’t want heartbreak, we don’t want to deal with grief, we do our best to run away from pain, not give into it. Yet, there is Glennon Doyle Melton, telling us to allow our pain to become our power. And there is Eckhart Tolle talking about how each disaster…